SET A GOOD EXAMPLE (S.A.G.E.)     S.A.G.E. is a Morris County Youth Soccer Association program that has been created to remind us that the game is for the kids, that respect is a lesson we can help teach, and that setting a good example is more important than winning.

 

Kid's participate in sports primarily because it is fun.  Adults need to keep it fun.  Some adults get too emotional about youth sports because they are too concerned about how their kids are doing, have the mistaken belief that winning is very important, or have a desire for glory through their kids' success. 

 

Kids need to know that if they're trying their best, they are winners.  Parents need to remember that their kids will not be great at everything.  Recognizing that, parents can help most by relaxing and enjoying the sport and their kid's play.

 

Placing too much pressure on kids to perform well creates stress that can detract from their fun and can effect their self-esteem.  Instructions shouted to players are distracting, usually too late, and sometimes inaccurate or in conflict with what the coach is teaching.